Let’s Get Curious: Paid Subscribers, Pick My Next Deep Dive 🧠
Curious about something? Want to figure out why someone does a thing? I'll research, use my psychology super powers, and give you a crisp, clean answer.
If you’ve been here a while, you know I love digging into the strange, fascinating, and deeply human corners of psychology—the places where science, experience, and self-reflection collide. And now, I want you to help steer the next deep dive.
Here’s the deal:
If you’re a paid subscriber, you get to suggest a topic, and I’ll do a full research deep dive into it and write up the nuggets for you. Think:
✔️ Applying Internal Family Systems (IFS) to Real Life – How to recognize and work with your inner parts when they’re activated in relationships, work, family, friendships and your self esteem.
✔️ Why does this person act like that? – Whether it’s your mother, your boss, your spouse or your kid, I can figure out what’s behind that weird reaction.
✔️ The Psychology of Decision-Making – Why we struggle with choices, how to stop overthinking, and what research says about intuition.
✔️ How do I stop being codependent? – Codependency is everywhere - so close it’s hard to see. Recognize the signs and learn healthier strategies.
✔️ Cognitive Dissonance in Relationships – How we justify contradictions, ignore red flags, and convince ourselves we’re fine when we’re not.
✔️ The Science of Rumination – Why our brains love to put the worst moment on replay and how to break the cycle.
✔️ Why Do We Self-Sabotage? – The hidden reasons we get in our own way, from procrastination to fear of success.
✔️ Attachment Theory, but Make It Useful – Practical ways to navigate attachment styles without just slapping labels on people.
You throw out the idea, and I’ll dig into the research, the nuance, and the unexpected angles to write something substantial about it.
How to Submit a Topic:
1️⃣ Drop your idea in the comments below (or send me a message if you’re feeling private).
2️⃣ If multiple people suggest similar topics, I’ll blend them or pick the one that sparks the deepest obsession.
3️⃣ If your topic isn’t picked this time, don’t worry—it might show up in a future post.
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Let’s get nerdy. Let’s get practical. Let’s make psychology actually useful in real life. 🧠✨